I just had an interesting class discussion with my Family and Social Policy Students. We are discussing the role of women in the workplace and how that has created stress in our families. Andrew Cherlin (2012) writes that this shift from women being at home to women being at work has been one of the MAJOR shifts in our society and has had a HUGE impact on the well-being of our families.
I asked my students as future social services workers, what can be done to support the families if this is the case? I was honestly surprised when their first recommendation was COMMUNICATION! It wasn't one of the many options that I had considered...better work policies, government programs, early childhood education, etc. Their first thought was to support families by strengthening the relationships between the parents. WOW! Kind of an eye opener.
Saturday, February 28, 2015
Politicizing the Victim
I have been thinking a lot lately how academic culture has been focusing on the victimization of so many different groups. Women are victims because they have been oppressed. Men are victims because they have been placed on the back burner by the women's movement, Black families are victims because of racism, poor families are victims because of the 1%. Where are those who manage to NOT be a victim? Are there any non-victims in the world? Could that be the 1%? But they are victims also because are they not Black, or Male, or Female?
Why do we need to have so many victims in our society? Do we need victims so that we can feel good about ourselves? I think I just have lots of questions here, because it's so non-sensical. Are we developing victims so we can figure out ways to control others through the government policy? Is that why academics are trying to hard to create hate for the 1%? So we can use our hate to make them feel bad about being successful so they'll give their wealth away? I know that many people work hard to get wealthy so they can give to others, but why not create a system so all can get wealthy?
One of my friends who is a successful Black woman indicated that she doesn't need anyone to make her a victim, she just wants people and government to get out of her way! Rather than creating victims, why not focus on those policies that get in the way of people's success?
For example, our constitution focuses on freedom of speech, the rights to life, LIBERTY, and the pursuit of happiness. The US Constitution is widely considered one of the most brilliant and inspired documents of our time. Do we accept that or not?
Our Supreme Court ensures that the laws fit with the constitution. When the Mormon Church comes out and asks for laws that protect their right to religious freedom, what has happened to the constitution? Who has the right to appeal to an organization to CHANGE their views because your lifestyle doesn't fit with their views? If an organization chooses to behave in a way that we don't like, DON'T JOIN THAT ORGANIZATION! Why are we required to pass new laws?
However, does the law control the job market? YES! The right to life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness does require that our workplace is a place where people can go and build a living for themselves and the private family (taking care of others, providing for the future, etc.). Thus, the government does have a responsibility to ensure that the workplace is a safe environment for everyone (all people regardless of sexual orientation, sex, gender, religious associations, race or ethnicity). Do business have a choice of who they serve? ABSOLUTELY! It's to their detriment to exclude people because of their own personal prejudices. Does government need to be in control of who businesses serve? I guess that is the question of the day.
If we look at how government may get in the way of people's success, I think that we all need to consider our social responsibilities to the people of this country. If your business uses hazardous chemicals that pollute the environment, then you have a social responsibility to NOT create a hazardous climate for others. There should be penalties there. Why not frame our laws in a way that focuses on whether or not you are being socially responsible so that others are not harmed by what you do?
Does this create a victim society?
Why do we need to have so many victims in our society? Do we need victims so that we can feel good about ourselves? I think I just have lots of questions here, because it's so non-sensical. Are we developing victims so we can figure out ways to control others through the government policy? Is that why academics are trying to hard to create hate for the 1%? So we can use our hate to make them feel bad about being successful so they'll give their wealth away? I know that many people work hard to get wealthy so they can give to others, but why not create a system so all can get wealthy?
One of my friends who is a successful Black woman indicated that she doesn't need anyone to make her a victim, she just wants people and government to get out of her way! Rather than creating victims, why not focus on those policies that get in the way of people's success?
For example, our constitution focuses on freedom of speech, the rights to life, LIBERTY, and the pursuit of happiness. The US Constitution is widely considered one of the most brilliant and inspired documents of our time. Do we accept that or not?
Our Supreme Court ensures that the laws fit with the constitution. When the Mormon Church comes out and asks for laws that protect their right to religious freedom, what has happened to the constitution? Who has the right to appeal to an organization to CHANGE their views because your lifestyle doesn't fit with their views? If an organization chooses to behave in a way that we don't like, DON'T JOIN THAT ORGANIZATION! Why are we required to pass new laws?
However, does the law control the job market? YES! The right to life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness does require that our workplace is a place where people can go and build a living for themselves and the private family (taking care of others, providing for the future, etc.). Thus, the government does have a responsibility to ensure that the workplace is a safe environment for everyone (all people regardless of sexual orientation, sex, gender, religious associations, race or ethnicity). Do business have a choice of who they serve? ABSOLUTELY! It's to their detriment to exclude people because of their own personal prejudices. Does government need to be in control of who businesses serve? I guess that is the question of the day.
If we look at how government may get in the way of people's success, I think that we all need to consider our social responsibilities to the people of this country. If your business uses hazardous chemicals that pollute the environment, then you have a social responsibility to NOT create a hazardous climate for others. There should be penalties there. Why not frame our laws in a way that focuses on whether or not you are being socially responsible so that others are not harmed by what you do?
Does this create a victim society?
Thursday, February 19, 2015
Education in the US
We just had a discussion in my school age and adolescence class about education in the US. We watched a TED talk by Sir Robinson who described how the US and the "No Child Left Behind" policy leaves lots of children behind. He also compared our education system to Finland and noted that we seemed to be focused on the core education principle and all children are the same. We certainly do seem to be wedded to the manufacturing model.
I have often wondered about this problem we have. Why do we insist on moving children through school based on age graded classrooms? In all my studies of human development and how children learn, children don't follow a mold, nor do they follow a standard pattern! How do we expect that our children will learn if we are measuring them against STANDARD measures?
Why not try something new? I keep wondering why we don't move back to classrooms that are not based on ages, but rather based on family relationships, or neighborhoods? Or, just random assignment so that the older children can help the younger children during class. It doesn't matter if you're not reading according to other kids your age, as long as you are learning to read?
Could we stand the idea of NOT using standardized measures?
I have often wondered about this problem we have. Why do we insist on moving children through school based on age graded classrooms? In all my studies of human development and how children learn, children don't follow a mold, nor do they follow a standard pattern! How do we expect that our children will learn if we are measuring them against STANDARD measures?
Why not try something new? I keep wondering why we don't move back to classrooms that are not based on ages, but rather based on family relationships, or neighborhoods? Or, just random assignment so that the older children can help the younger children during class. It doesn't matter if you're not reading according to other kids your age, as long as you are learning to read?
Could we stand the idea of NOT using standardized measures?
Tuesday, February 17, 2015
Political Ideology!!!
It's been a couple of years since I posted last. However, I am NOT supposed to be opinionated, but I struggle with this sometimes. I have come to the conclusion that I should post anyway, try to hide my opinion and then let the discussion begin! I hope that I can disguise my political ideology--mostly because I don't really hold to one ideology...I think we need to allow ourselves more intellectual freedom than aligning ourselves to one party or another. Once you do, you seem to be locked in and challenged on your beliefs: "You are not a real ___________" (just fill in the black with...Republican, Democrat, Socialist, Tea Partier, whatever!)
Can anyone answer that question? Why align with a party?
Can anyone answer that question? Why align with a party?
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